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Semi-Friends Only
This journal is semi-friends only. My created works--fictions, art, videos--will be open to the public, but certain personal posts will be f-locked. Anyone may add me, but to be added back, read the guidelines following the cut and then leave a comment:
Please comment to be added. If I DON'T know you and you DON'T comment, I will assume you don't want to be added back. Seriously, no one wants to befriend a bot (or regular de-friending offenders).
- I don't (cannot stress this enough) enjoy getting de-friending notices in my e-mail. Be sure that being mutual friends is something you really want and that I'm someone who won't annoy you. I'm sensitive (and have poor self-esteem) and can’t seem to help but take it personally when I’m cut (Was it something I did? Am I that boring? etc.). If you like keeping your friends' list stream-lined to only those you chat with a lot or if you are just one of those indecisive people who may friend today only to de-friend tomorrow, please don’t ask to be added…unless you are really, really sure you’ll be sticking around.
- Be patient with me. I'm very forgetful and I'm very busy in my real life. I sometimes don't post often and I sometimes get behind on comment replies. Often I read them in my e-mail at work, but just don't have the time right then to reply back (I like to think about what I'm saying rather than just throwing stuff at you, so I might struggle with what to say). So, I do read, but sometimes get behind on replies for a variety of reasons.
- Take in consideration that I am a Dean girl (or, even better, a ♥ Jensen Ackles' ♥ fan). That's not to say that I don't also enjoy Castiel and Sam (AND Jared) or that I don't believe wholeheartedly that the core of the Supernatural universe is the brothers’ love and bond (though I do enjoy Dean and Cas' epic friendship as well), but just be aware that my main enjoyment comes from Dean and it will be his POV that I sympathize with when push comes to shove. On the other hand, I don't enjoy blatant bashing of either Winchester brother or Castiel.
- Don't expect a lot of commenting from me on your journal. As I said above, I'm a fairly busy person with a full-time job, two school-age children, a hubby, pets, a close-knit extended family and other responsibilities that take up most of my days and nights. It’s not personal, it's just that I have only so much time to be on the computer. Also, my lack of commenting does not in any way mean that I don’t ♥ love ♥ hearing from you or that I don’t sometimes browse my friends’ journals when I find the time. Know that I appreciate each and every one of you sincerely and would miss you if you were to suddenly disappear--yes, I do notice. :)
♥ Thanks and I hope you enjoy my journal!!! ♥
Miss you, too! It's been a crazy life lately, has it not? I get the sense that you know exactly what I mean!
Good to see you again, btw...and thanks, I'm glad you enjoy my posts!
How's things, sweetie?
There's been lots of drama with my son and his grades. He's in middle school now and it's not going so well. It's so very frustrating to have a sharp kid who'd rather do anything but be at school.
Add to that work stuff I'm behind on from being sick, mid-quarter grades coming due, the holidays starting to kick off and everything online and you have a recipe for avoidance! LOL! Just kidding. I'm taking it as it comes the best I can--look at that positive attitude go! *woot, woot*
*runs and knocks on wood*
Hope I didn't just jinx myself. *looks around worriedly*
me too :D haha. <3
*Hugs* ;)
It took me long enough to get this done...couldn't find a banner I liked and I'm still looking. Oh, yeah, I'm doing lots better. Am really behind and feeling the heat, but feeling pretty good as of this moment. ;)
*clings back* You'd better not go anywhere! I wouldn't want to lose any of the people commenting back tonight...you all are my support system! *hugs*
And also, how do you even find time to talk to us as much as you do? Holy cow your life is busy!
Life is too busy, yes? Glad to see ya!
We are already mutual friends and I hate to be de-friended (is that even a word) so please don't. I not a writer but love to read. Also a Dean/Jensen (congratulations Jensen) gurl and sorry I don't do much commenting either.
Glad to see I'm not the only one who hates getting de-friended!
Of course I wouldn't dare! I'd be crazy to lose track of you! I hope things are going better. I feel bad that I wasn't around to cheer you up during a rough time.
But, I'm sending bear hugs now! *bear hugs*
Danneel lover
Jensen lover, Jared worshiper
Hate wank and got defriended twice for that
Poet/Egyptian/Family girl/thinker
SPN addict, love Sam & Dean equally. I also love Cas a LOT
I don't comment much either
So, friends?
Love your LJ layout too!
And, thanks, I like my layout, too :D. JessicaRae made it!
Am I a friend or semi friend, or mutual?? lol, I have no idea how any of it works!!!
Anywho, I have been very bad at keeping up with my friend journals but hopefully I'll be able to catch up! Your layout left my jaw on the floor, tis gorgeous.
Schelz <3
No worries, I'm the LAST person who has any right to point any fingers! I keep going AWOL myself! You, my friend, are a mutual friend. You friended me and I friended you back, so, definitely mutual! :)
Oh, thanks about the layout! JessicaRae made it for me. I love it, too!
Posting
Nah, just kidding, and I totally understand the posting issues, sometimes Life just doesn't give ya' the time.
On the Brothers thing, I'll admit that I'm more of a Sammy Girl but I got no massive issue with Dean, just a bigger fan of the Puppy :)
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Welcome, btw!
It's Wendy aka Dean's_Gal.
Hope this is ok that I added you as a friend on here :)
Take care and see over at sn.tv.
Nice to know someone else who hated the whole defriending thing.
And, thank you, I'm glad you like what you've read so far. :)
Plus. You're a Dean!girl who also enjoys Sam. I hate fandom's tendency to think if you love one brother you must HATE ALL OTHER PEOPLE WITH THE POWER OF THE SUN!
Anyhoo. Hi!
Yep, I'm a Dean girl who enjoys Sam when he's really Sam, lol! And of course you can have a preference and still like the other...that's like saying if you like chocolate you can't like peanut butter and I just LOVE Reese's Peanut Butter Cups! ;)
Wising you a glorious day and many,many blessings:)
Love
Paulette (lettie) xx
Nicole
P.S. I love your nickname--Lettie!
'tis me, Jenny
*hugs*
Re: 'tis me, Jenny
From fanfic.net
Thanks,
Katie
Re: From fanfic.net