This journal is semi-friends only. My created works--fictions, art, videos--will be open to the public, but certain personal posts will be f-locked. Anyone may add me, but to be added back, read the guidelines following the cut and then leave a comment:
Please comment to be added. If I DON'T know you and you DON'T comment, I will assume you don't want to be added back. Seriously, no one wants to befriend a bot (or regular de-friending offenders).
- I don't (cannot stress this enough) enjoy getting de-friending notices in my e-mail. Be sure that being mutual friends is something you really want and that I'm someone who won't annoy you. I'm sensitive (and have poor self-esteem) and can’t seem to help but take it personally when I’m cut (Was it something I did? Am I that boring? etc.). If you like keeping your friends' list stream-lined to only those you chat with a lot or if you are just one of those indecisive people who may friend today only to de-friend tomorrow, please don’t ask to be added…unless you are really, really sure you’ll be sticking around.
- Be patient with me. I'm very forgetful and I'm very busy in my real life. I sometimes don't post often and I sometimes get behind on comment replies. Often I read them in my e-mail at work, but just don't have the time right then to reply back (I like to think about what I'm saying rather than just throwing stuff at you, so I might struggle with what to say). So, I do read, but sometimes get behind on replies for a variety of reasons.
- Take in consideration that I am a Dean girl (or, even better, a ♥ Jensen Ackles' ♥ fan). That's not to say that I don't also enjoy Castiel and Sam (AND Jared) or that I don't believe wholeheartedly that the core of the Supernatural universe is the brothers’ love and bond (though I do enjoy Dean and Cas' epic friendship as well), but just be aware that my main enjoyment comes from Dean and it will be his POV that I sympathize with when push comes to shove. On the other hand, I don't enjoy blatant bashing of either Winchester brother or Castiel.
- Don't expect a lot of commenting from me on your journal. As I said above, I'm a fairly busy person with a full-time job, two school-age children, a hubby, pets, a close-knit extended family and other responsibilities that take up most of my days and nights. It’s not personal, it's just that I have only so much time to be on the computer. Also, my lack of commenting does not in any way mean that I don’t ♥ love ♥ hearing from you or that I don’t sometimes browse my friends’ journals when I find the time. Know that I appreciate each and every one of you sincerely and would miss you if you were to suddenly disappear--yes, I do notice. :)
♥ Thanks and I hope you enjoy my journal!!! ♥